Comparing genders is like comparing Coca-Cola to Pepsi. They're slightly different from each other, but they're both bad for you, as they're exactly the same thing.
Women are better at appearing kind and restraining externally speaking words they may regret, regardless of their true intentions. I theorize the reason for such self control is because fluctuating hormones due to puberty and pregnancy have made them used to such changes and have learned how to still function normally when dealing with these moments. They also know common ways to tell someone things if they feel being direct will lead to an unfavorable outcome. I.E. "I have a boyfriend," instead of "I'm not interested in you, sorry." I've had women say the boyfriend line when I invited them to a birthday bash with Mario Party and pizza, even if their interests aligned with mine - the line is not used exclusively for dissuading romantic persuers.
Men, in general, I've noticed more commonly say exactly what they mean and are less likely to change their mind in as quickly of a time span if they agree to commit to something, be it a friendship, a hangout, being at your wedding, or helping you move. But if they ever feel a moment of frustration or anger, they often let it explode quicker, as unless they've had training in a stressful work environment, they are not as well versed as keeping focused and keeping the negative emotions buried beneath the surface.
Women are only objectively better than men at one thing in life - bending over a chair in a leg-locked L shape and standing up with the chair in hand without moving their lower body. This is because female humans have an extra muscle in the abdomen that men do not have that allows them to stand back up from that position.
When it comes to emotions, honesty, and general human integrity, men and women are just as bad, and just as good as each other. Even if I've known more male friends who have been completely honest and reliable to me than female friends (but I still know a couple,) I'm smart enough to know my experience does not speak for the objective truth. I mean, just because I've never seen a million dollars doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
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